I’m back – Cultural Differences or Something More? (Part 6)?
Question by Giannidellavigne: I’m back – Cultural Differences or Something More? (Part 6)?
Okay Yahoo kicked me off because I exceeded the number of questions per day so I had to log on as my other account.
Here’s the bottom line since everyone is getting frustrated:
– Regarding our “traditional Church marriage” which she agreed to…she’s changed her mind and refuses to marry me “again.” She says it’s a waste of time and money and we’re already married and if I want to get married again it’s because I don’t feel our current “court wed” marriage is real.
This upsets me beyond belief.
2.) My cousin is getting married. I have 5 cousins total – 5. He’s my closest one. She refuses to go to the wedding with me bc it’s in Georgia and she would have to “waste one of her vacation days” when she only has 5 per year. Yet she’s now booking a trip to visit her friend in South America where she’ll use up 2 days AND miss T-giving which is an important holiday to me.
3.) She’s 30 and I’m 26. She wants kids and I really don’t not now. Last part continues…
Best answer:
Answer by .::Lovely~Gurl::.
1) Well does she know this upsets you? Because if she dosen’t maybe you should sit down with her and tell her
2)Well everybody has differnt belifs and dosen’t alwayz like what you like….its sad really…
3)Well maybe you can say like if she gets married again then you can have kids or sumthin….and like tell her why u don’t want kids and well I think maybe you should becuase she ain’t gettin any younger and maybe by the time you wanna have them she might not be able 2
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Why the hell didn’t you figure any of this out BEFORE you married her?
You two are bikering like you are both 18 or something. A marrige is a COMPRIMISE. If you cant even comprimise and come to an agreement on little things like going to a freinds wedding. Then you both need to sit down and think hard about your future together. My wife and i are of differant race and culture. It is hard sometimes, but you both need to relise that you had differant upbrining and that these things will occur, so long as you both try for one another to try, and give to one another and compriomise. Oppisites attract man, so dont think its good enough reason to leave the relationship. But the not having kids and wanting kids and you not wanting them, well that could be a deal breaker. You both need to back off a little bit and comprimise alot. It will work only if you both try.
I say again, get your butt to marriage counseling.
Because your wife is wearing the pants and controlling all the decisions and that is NOT the way it works. You’re supposed to share the pants.