GUYS,My boyfriend is in a resort in South America for a week to spend Christmas alone. Why am I nervous?
Question by Sarah C: GUYS,My boyfriend is in a resort in South America for a week to spend Christmas alone. Why am I nervous?
How to know if I can trust him or not.
Okay, I realize now that it sounds bad. Well, it’s long distance for now so we can’t be together even if we want to. He really will be alone this Christmas so he decided to travel instead of staying at home.
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Answer by nnuunn
Well, you either trust him or you don’t. He can do something that you wont be happy with and tell you that he was at the hotel whole time watching TV or he can be really just enjoying his time at vacation and not doing anything that will break your trust or upset you. Its the matter how much he really loves you, respects you and what his values and morals stand for. But to trust or not its totally up to you. You can be breezy about it and be happy for him that he has vacation or you can create demons in your head that will drive you nuts and at some point him too. It’s very hard to leave without assumptions and enjoy current moment. If you think about it… nobody ever can be accountable for someones actions and you can’t force anyone to do something what you want or not to do that. Everyone will always do what is better for them. That’s human nature and all of us are egoists! You can only chose for yourself if you want to be in that situation or with that person. That’s in general – i didn’t refer to your BF. I hope he will be a good boy and most important i really hope that you will let go and enjoy YOUR Christmas and don’t think about something that “possibly might happened”. Worry about it if its already done – not in advance! Happy holidays honey!!!
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