How can you get your borderline personality exgirlfriend to split you back white?
Question by Romeo: How can you get your borderline personality exgirlfriend to split you back white?
Met this amazing girl about 3 months ago, everything I could of dreamed of and ticked all the boxes. Good looking, intelligent, qwerky sense of humour. Hit it off on the first date and saw her every night for the following two months which I’ve never done with a girl before. She was so addictive and I couldn’t wait to see her every evening. She introduced to her family and friends within the first two weeks and everything seemed amazing. Didn’t want me out of her site. Arranged weekend trips out and evenings out with friends and family.She mentioned early on that she has adhd and was medicated for it although she didn’t take her mdication properly and then a couple of weeks later she slipped into conversation that she was diagnosed with ‘borderline bi-polar’ which because I heard borderline thought it meant she didn’t quite have it.
Two amazing months and after the first small argument we had in the relationship she split me ‘black’ and within days started seeing some random guy when she insisted she wanted to just cool things down and wanted space.Don’t even know how she met this guy as we spent the whole of our time together. She still speaks to my sister although hid the fact that she was dating and always said that she just needed space. A week before the sepaeration she was telling my sister who met her in Spain (ex went with friends and sister went later with bf) that she couldn’t wait to get home and was never leaving me again. Also talked about being with me forever. All she did whilst on holiday was text how she didn’t realise how much she was missing me and even called once in tears to say she just wanted to come home as she hated it there. Must say she told my sister that she reduced her medication when she was out there so she could drink and self medicate with drugs.
Guys, I need help, its been a month and although I’ve found out shes dating this guy I’ve just sent a few texts to say that I’ll always be there for her and she can contact anytime. How can you get back from the split from ‘black’ to ‘white’? Can an argument with him get her coming back to me? Just think its wierd that she befriending my sister and is always asking her around her place and whenever my sister visits the ex always says that I can call her or text anytime but when I do she doesn’t respond. I also know that when she split from her ex before me she made it quite clear that things were over and she was with me. Why is she hiding it? What is ‘borderline bi-polar’ a mix between BPD and bi-polar?
Best answer:
Answer by caitlin c
That actually means she has both.
I believe, to split back to white, you have to have a good meeting with her.
I’m glad you want her back. ^^
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