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biggest gf struggle ever?

Question by DethkloK: biggest gf struggle ever?
my gf called me last night telling me her dad got drunk (as always) and made her leave his place. she has her own place and was visiting him for the holidays which gave us little communication. when she called she was crying and angry and fed up with everything inclueding me and idk how im a “problem in her life” the entire month of her gone ive been constantly fighting to talk to her cause i really miss her and love her. and she was telling me im such a bitch and some hardcore bad stuff. i try to explain and ask her why she feels that way towards me and us but she just hangs up when i start talking. shes bi polar and hurts me alot and ive hurt her too but never do i just ignore her and throw her aside like she does me after chewing me out. we’ve been together 9 months and i dont want to lose her. she has huge mental problems has a brain tumor and emotional issues alot but i always stay by her and try to help and make her happy so idk how im a problem in her life and a bitch.i try to see things her way always since she leaves me if i dont agree with her or if shes wrong. she hasnt picked up or texted me back or anything idk what to think everytime she breaks my heart she doesnt care or make it better i have to re essemble myself but when its her im always there and dont ignore her like i dont care. i think she left me idk why i just dont know… comments, answers, advice?

Best answer:

Answer by Dibster
dealing with someone bipolar is never easy. You coul try your best to see things her way but the truth is you won’t really understand. About that give her time many bipolar ppl deal wit their problems in diff. Ways mybe she wants space. You also have to think is not fair being treated likec that and if your able to put up with it. If so just give her time mybe she hasent found the right meds and just have to be patient to her mood changing. If she did leave then the best thing for you to do is to understand that she mite feel not stable enough to be in a relationship so there you either wait for her or move on. Good luck and hope things get better.

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