Q&A: One Last Go With The Girl I Love? (Please Answer)?
Question by Death2262: One Last Go With The Girl I Love? (Please Answer)?
The Story begins with a love triangle as sad as that sounds before she meet the guy she was dating (was) Me and her fell in love and while i was in another city with barely any contact she was going through a tough time and someone else was there for her and she fell in love with him too
Now when i came back bout a week later they started dating she claimed the feelings she had for me were gone and there was nothing left (there was A lot of Dramas but ill skip that)
8 Months later she breaks up with him and said she loved me but wedidn’tt start anything cause it was to complicated at the time.
She went to Japan on a school trip and when she came back she said the feelings had past now through those 8 months i went through a lot of pain and I think she said it just to protect me.
now bout 2 months later shes going out with someone else and i went to New Zealand for the holidays for a break but before I left i gave her a letter explaining everything how i felt and that i never stopped loving her.
Now i am 98% sure that something is still there but i am debating if i should act on it like I’ve tried moving on don’t get me wrong i really have but I’ve never loved anyone as much as i do her.
Now you may think shes playing me but i 100% Guarantee you she isn’t like that we have both been through alot this year.
Another thing is shes my best friend and im hers
So my question is do i do something or not
Best answer:
Answer by SweetBrunette
No, you do not do anything.
Go to New Zealand.
If the relationship was meant to be, it will be there when you return from your trip. If it wasn’t there, then you know it wasn’t meant to be.
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If you think that in your heart you can do it once more, then yes go for it. Otherwise, if they severely hurt you before, then drop the ball. Take your ball and go find someone else to play with. I think that you would have a better chance finding someone of better quality if you look hard enough and trust yourself. Loving her is one thing, her disliking/disregarding you is another.
Yes of course you do something!
She’s scared.
Scared that when she’ll have you she’ll lose you.
Now i don’t know what the letter says, but if you told her your feelings then she’ll be even more scared YOU might be playing with her.
Go and talk to her face to face.
Don’t miss your love.