is my albanian boyfriend using me for a passport in the future lol?
Question by yoyoyo1: is my albanian boyfriend using me for a passport in the future lol?
its a long distance relationship of 7 months so far, hes in london and im somewhere up north. and he seems to really love and care for me cos he has spent SO much money on me when i visit him (compared to other guys my age on their girlfriends) and when he visits me. im 19 hes 23. he said his last gf offered to help him with it but he refused. i feel like he isnt but ive heard so many stories about albanians lolol x
i should say: when i say SO much money, i dont mean that much lol, its just im a student and it seems a lot to me
he actually bought the dvd taken, told me to watch it, watched it with me to make sure id seen it, then told me to be really careful cos there are alot of bad men out there.
also, he has been told the decision on his passport will be made by this summer. so hes waiting. he says when he gets it (and hes seems to be sure he’ll get it) he wants to go on holiday with me lol and he wants to take me to albania to meet his family but i said no and that il go next summer if we’re still together.
he’s told me so much about his life and his past mistakes with girls and stuff that i trust him.
btw: the reason i put lol at the end of the question is cos, i dont plan to marry anyone anytime soon so the jokes on him if thats the case
Best answer:
Answer by Blueberrygal
I think most do use women for citzenship. I’ve seen this more than once. Be very careful.
What do you think? Answer below!
Sounds like you don’t think it’s a serious relationship, but he does since he wants you to come with him and meet his family. And I don’t think he’s using you since he wanted you, yourself to go to Albania with him this summer.
If he was using you to try to stay in the UK, he would have picked someone older than 19. You would have to be 21 before marriage to you would allow him to apply to stay on that basis.
What is interesting is that you say you trust him, but you ask this question and you have refused to go to Albania with him this summer. I think your gut instinct is telling you something that you should be listening to.
maybe, maybe not. how would we know? however I woudn’t rule it out and maybe he’s telling you the story about the ex girl friend so you won’t think he’s trying to use you. but I tend to be a bit cynical. I’d say though, if you have to ask, it seems you don’t really trust him, and if that’s the case,maybe you have good reason.