Should I ask this girl out on a date on July 4th?
Question by Protrek1500: Should I ask this girl out on a date on July 4th?
There is this girl that I met at work couple days ago and shes stopped by my desk 3 times to chat and we get along so well and we exchange laughs like we’ve known each other for a while. I’m a guy who kind of gave up on the whole chasing girls thing because I had enough of relationships. There is just something about this girl that I can’t stop thinking about. July 4th is coming up and I have never celebrated the national holiday because I grew up in Asia (I’m an American) in a very Asian society. I’m thinking about asking what shes doing that day and maybe ask her out or something. Im in my early 20s and she is 19. Never in my mind I’d thought that I would like someone of another color (not in a bad way but if you lived in a one skin tone society/environment, it’s something new and you would never expect yourself to have interest in a women of another color).The girl is beautiful, model like, dresses appropriately, and respects and appreciates her culture(puts henna art on her wrist area). I like women who is not brainwashed by whats popular in the media and is herself. I like women who practices her culture (by wearing, think from that perspective..etc) despite that she lives in America where a lot of young people nowadays don’t practice their culture from their ethnicity (Japanese, Korean, Ethiopian, African…etc.). Anyways, cut to the chase, is it weird to ask someone out on July 4th? Do people go on dates on July 4th? Whether I’m taking this girl out or not, I’m more interested in if people go on dates on this national holiday.
Please don’t leave insulting comments. Thanks.
Best answer:
Answer by tanyaa.
i think its fine! i think that people do date july 4th, in fact people date all the time whenever they have the chance! i think you should take her out to dinner, some place nice, and then you two go and watch the fire works, its romantic and she’ll be impressed!
hope that helps! 
What do you think? Answer below!
yeah man go ahead and ask her if she wants to go do something with you on the holiday if you like her
I would go ahead with what your suggesting. Find out what she does on the 4th – you can casually bring up that the holiday is getting close and ask if she’s doing anything special for it/if she celebrates it at all.
From there you can gauge whether can ask her or not. E.g. don’t ask if she’s busy. :b
Also its a national holiday – you can take her to a fireworks show or something that evening. It usually works really well normally because you’re choosing to spend what is otherwise a big day with her, and if you find out its not that big a deal to her, the two of you can spend time taking in and talking about the sights and sounds associated with the day anyhow, and anything you might consider weird or funny from a cultural perspective.
Anyway, all the best, man, and good luck! We’re rooting for you.