Long distance boyfriend. Should I end this. I am so confused :( :(?
Question by Ladyfame: Long distance boyfriend. Should I end this. I am so confused 
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We live in different countries in Europe. He has flown down to meet me three time from September. We met last week. I love him, he’s lovely. Sometimes I think I could end up with him. He’s five years older than me (Im 19 and he’s 24)
Sometimes he gets me really annoyed though. He does compare his country to mine all the time- ‘Oh but in —, this is better’. It annoyes the hell out of me and I was close to ending it with him because after he left after one trip, I felt all hurt and annoyed that nothing I have is good enough.
There is another thing that annoys the hell out of me. My parents live in Asia at the moment and I’m there for the holidays. We can’t really skype like we used to because he’s in the mountains and the internet connection is rubbish. Anyway, we call each other up and its annoying that he’ll always say I have to go now we have to ski or I have to go for dinner with my parents.
I mean we were to talk on skype last night and he texted me that he had to go for dinner and that we should talk tomorrow? So he couldnt call me up for a minute to tell me? I hate him sometimes.
The thing is I think he’s more in love with me than I am with him. He’s very attached to me and wants to get amrried and all and I love him as well. I can’t imagine not being with him but I feel I have changed as a person since we have been going out (a year now) Im boring, I don’t go anywhere or do anything. I miss him so much when I am back in uni and Im sick of this. I used to be a very popular girl back in school and I enjoyed life.
I’m confused. I can’t live without him but I’m also a bit sick of our relationship situation. I suspect he’s a little childish. I mean how can you keep going out with your parents!!! All the time. Oh dear god.
Help me. I’m in tears here.
I meant dinner with his parents when he is on holiday with them not during term time when he lives alone.
Best answer:
Answer by Ally S
Maybe you should get a boyfriend that’s local. Going out to dinner with your parents all the time and he doesn’t live with them? uhhhh that sounds hella sketchy!
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I dont think its healthy to be in a relationship with you guys so far away…2nd find someone alittle closer to you!!!
You are both young, give it more time, clearly state your likes and dislikes including the put-downs; if he does not respond appropriately say good bye and move on.